The Ribbon Marker’s Guide to Effective Reader Entrapment: Part 2 – Word of Mouth

 The Ribbon Marker’s Guide to Effective Reader Entrapment

How to successfully get me, and  many other readers out there, to buy your book.

2. Word of Mouth (WOM)

We would all like to think that we are above peer-pressure, and the being influenced by the thoughts of others, but the fact is we only allow those who we think are worthy of having input into what we do and say. I, personally, don’t hang out with a lot of readers who like the same genres I enjoy. Most of my friends go for more mainstream, highly publicized books or classics. However, I, like many other book readers, love talking about books, even if we are not talking about books in our preferred genre (the book club phenomena).

For about half a year, I asked my friends’ opinions on Fifty Shades of Grey. I was wasn’t really inquiring about the writing style or the way the story unfolded, but I wanted to know what my friends thought about E.L. James’ portrayal of the BDSM lifestyle. I am not a practitioner of the lifestyle (though I wouldn’t mind if my lover required some aspects), but I have a profound respect for those who do and I didn’t like feeling that their lifestyle, in essence who they, might not have been correctly portrayed (I dislike people who criticize things they don’t even make an effort to understand). Finally, after a year of opinion gathering, vacillating, and reading short excerpts of the books online, I finally bit the bullet and read the books shortly before the movie came out on Valentine’s Day.

BDSM books are one of the few times where I feel that authors should really take their time to do their research, because it is such a polarizing concept. People are either going to get it and identify with those who practice BDSM, be open-minded (it’s not for me, but whatever flips your switch), or want to condemn it as being sick or the sexual practices of people with issues. From the media frenzy, I felt like E.L. James walked right into an ambush set-up by those in the last category. By only portraying the more interesting or extreme aspects of BDSM (extreme control, contracts, punishment, etc.), and having the character who introduced it into the relationship having been an abused and neglected control-freak (opposite the virginal goody-two shoes), she basically gave the intolerant people a leg to stand on. These individuals’ wouldn’t waste their time in researching BDSM, because they already “know” that their current, uneducated opinion is correct.

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